So, you met an older man, and you’re rather compelled by his wit, charm, and success. Who can blame you? You may be taken aback at the idea of being with him; maybe the age gap is so large that you’re thinking those few years or significant ones may derail the relationship. After all, one of the true advantages of being with your peers is that you have so many social and cultural references and, most likely, a similar outlook on how the world should work. The older man in this case then may be a bit intimidating. No matter — whether you’re interested in a purely physical fling, a dinner date, or fully committing to this man, there are many good reasons to make him your bedroom partner if you want to, all of them worth exploring!
1. He’s Confident in All the Right Ways
He’s comfortable in his skin. He’s already gone through his awkward and unsure phases and knows his body and personality. He’s not pretending to be someone he’s not. He knows what he has to offer and isn’t out to desperately please anyone. This lack of pretense and full acceptance of himself makes him a pleasure to be around.
2. You’re Comfortable With Him
Because he’s so secure, you feel settled in yourself around him. This peace and ease makes for a very good relationship, especially in the bedroom. You’re not worried that he might be analyzing your flaws because you’re damn sure he’s so in awe of every single inch of you.
3. Experience Matters
A young man may have energy, wit, and gumption to try and go for almost any bedroom scenario, but the older man has been there, done that, and now he knows what works, what doesn’t, and how to give you the ultimate sexual experience.
4. Romance Is Important
While I wouldn’t mind a man waxing poetic about me on Facebook, I would much rather have a real-life romantic man. And the older man? Well, he’s that and then some. Depending on his age, he may not even bother with social media, and even if he does, he knows the importance of face-to-face intimate contact, which is exactly what a woman needs.
5. He Doesn’t Want to Play Games
It’s rare you’re going to meet an older man who’s into head games. If he’s a bachelor not interested in commitment, he’ll tell you upfront. If he’s looking for more, he already knows what he wants, and if he’s open to possibilities, he’ll lay it down on the line. And that’s incredibly hot.
6. He Can Handle Your Honesty
Some younger men will bristle at the idea of you giving them sexual constructive feedback, but not the older man. He wants to please you and hear what he can do to make you climax.
If you’re into an older man, give him a chance! If he’s a real man — and we all know that’s not easy to find — he’ll put you and your needs first. And that’s exactly what you deserve.